Ques-I have developed an attachment with one of my friends and tried to have a life partner like relationship. But Maharaj Ji, it did not last long. Some circumstances arose and everything ended. But I am not able to forget him.
Maharaj ji says- Now if you play the games of lust and your mind becomes impure, how will you be able to forget? Shame on such a life, that after getting human life, you do not think about God that I am not able to forget God, this should be the benefit of life. By getting attached to these perishable bodies and experiencing happiness in sensual pleasures, I am not able to forget Him, then shame on such intelligence.
By degrading your life, corrupting your intellect and getting attached to a human being, this is the way to hell, what kind of a way is this. If you have to choose a life partner, then you choose it once and then you maintain that person for the rest of your life, only then you have a life partner. This is a thought process, today this person, tomorrow that person, day after tomorrow someone else, what people are calling breakup these days. Boyfriend-girlfriend then breakup and this cycle goes on.